How to bring back the sparkle to an unhappy relationship…

By May 6, 2015FaceBook

How to bring back the sparkle to an unhappy relationship

You can solve your relationship problems and turn an unhappy marriage or relationship into a happy one. Use the tried and tested methods from my practice and the very best relationship teachers around (see example), stay positive and love like there’s no tomorrow.

I’m right here beside you with the best online relationship advice.

Are you in need of relationship advice?

If so, this is why:

You, I and everybody else come with ‘baggage’ from our past.  The voices and memories of our parents, teachers, siblings and friends reside in our hearts, ring in our ears and form the silent majority in our unconscious minds. We are happy, unhappy or somewhere in between based on the effects – and our interpretations – of all that has happened.

The challenge of overcoming relationship problems

We have been on a ‘journey’. During that journey we – perhaps not literally, but certainly figuratively – experienced natural disasters, traversed dangerous territory, fought bullies and mighty armies… as well as enjoyed the celebrations and exhilarations of achieving our goals.

I dislike the word ‘baggage’ here, with that slightly negative connotation, and would rather replace it with ‘hold-all’. What do you think?

That hold-all contains the riches of your innate resources, shiny new keep-sakes, skills, knowledge and a uniqueness that makes you like no other.

That hold-all also contains stuff that no longer serves you and stops you reaching your goals, becoming happy and even achieving marital bliss. There’s no need to judge it though – it is what it is.

Close couple gently talking

Repairing your long-term relationship or marriage

The contents of your hold-all determine to a great extent how you shape your relationships, and most importantly your relationship with your partner or spouse – good or bad, happy or unhappy.

I really want to reassure you that there is no shame in struggling to make your long-term relationship or marriage work!

Below is list of free online relationship advice articles to help you…

… turn arguments into passionate discussions
… soothe the pain of disappointments and hurts
… rekindle lost love
… bring back that sparkle
… jumpstart that joyful anticipation of spending time together

 

 

Originally Published:   http://www.professional-counselling.com/articles-unhappy-marriage-relationship.html