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Top 3 Ways to be a “Real Man” in a Relationship

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   Dating in today’s world has changed and many clients come to Valenti Matchmaking in order to find a true partner. Many ladies who take part in out in depth process tell us that they are looking for a “real man.” But how each person defines that can be as individual as each person. The stereotypical character of a “real man” used to be a large, strong and brash guy who cared more about his absolute freedom above everything else. Rugged good looks are no doubt appealing, but there are more important things to consider when looking for love. In…

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Top 3 Reasons Smart, Attractive People Can’t Find Love

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   Valenti Matchmaking discovered that the more one has to offer in life, the harder it is to find the right, special partner. It is a bit of a paradox, as people who seem to have everything in life are often the loneliest. People that live an elevated life can have more challenges when seeking a romantic partner. Some of the ways that this can be seen has been shared with us over our many years of matchmaking experience:   Being sought out for financial gain. Quite often when someone achieves a luxurious lifestyle after years of hard work, they…

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Top 3 Reasons Professionals Have It Tougher Finding Love

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   Smart, successful, and accomplished professionals are finding it harder than ever to find love in today’s world.   While it seems like our planet is shrinking and technologies like social media allow people to feel in touch all over the world, when it comes to their intimate personal lives, many are finding it lacking. How can attractive, intelligent, quality people not be able to find love? Well, there are many reasons that busy professionals can have it tougher when it comes to romance. These following reasons are also why many professionals seeking out matchmaking for help.   Why professionals have…

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Top 3 Reasons You’ll Find Love in Your Golden Years

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    Finding love is a quintessential human experience, but one that can be daunting in our later years. Sometimes people feel that is it just not possible to find love in your golden years. While there are some unique challenges, there are many reasons that you should never give up hope for finding love!   You have more time to enjoy life. Later in life, people usually have more freedom and flexibility to travel, pursue their passion and appreciate life. Along with this flexibility comes the time and energy to share time with someone special who also has space…

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How To Stop Expectations From Hurting Your Relationship

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It is natural to have certain expectations in your romantic relationships. But if you allow them to stay hidden and unexpressed, it is quite easy for expectations to put undue stress and hurt an otherwise healthy relationship. There can be expectations related to how much connection the two partners have, as well as expectations about how much passion or physical intimacy there should be in the relationship. People can also have expectations about destiny, for example believing that two people are meant to be together vs. working on their relationship. People can also expect things to move at different paces…

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Learning to Trust Again After Divorce

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    Getting divorced can be a trying and emotionally exhausting experience with lasting effects. Many people find themselves having difficulty trusting and opening themselves up to new partners after divorce. When there is infidelity or a contentious divorce, one’s trust can be shaken. The person they fell in love with can become a source of pain and doubt. Without recognizing divorce’s full impact, it can be very difficult for people to learn to trust again.   However, there is always hope! Learning to trust again is possible and can become a great opportunity to grow! Taking steps to make…

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Making the choice to find love, doing it for yourself.

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  Choosing to seek out and find love is one of the most personal endeavors one can take. It is not something to be taken lightly. It is natural to ask for advice or support when searching for the right person to share lives with. Most of the time, friends and family are very supportive, as they want the best for their loved ones. However, that support can sometimes be misguided and limit the opportunities a person can have.   Loved ones sometimes try to set up dates with people who they think will be the right fit, but often…

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Why Conflict is Healthy for Relationships

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  In any relationship, there will be some conflict. While it is never a pleasant experience, it can be a positive opportunity in a healthy relationship. Two people in a healthy relationship will have strong feelings for each other, but one can forget that these strong feelings can also feel negative. Everyone’s most memorable arguments are always with loved ones. When you care about someone, the emotional charge in a disagreement can be highly charged.   However, how one resolves a dispute is critical as it can actually strengthen the bonds in a loving partnership. The team at Valenti came…

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A Step-by-Step Guide to Stop Negative Thoughts.

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  As we discussed in our last blog, negative thinking can deeply interfere with finding love and happiness. If left unchecked, these pessimistic thoughts can become automatic, coming up when you try to get ready to out yourself out there and meet someone new. But how can you actually put a stop to these thoughts? The team of matchmakers at Valenti International found this interesting article that clearly described how to do it! The way to stop negative thoughts like “I will never find someone” or ”I’m too old to find love again” is to take clear steps to identify…

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Stop Making Excuses and Start Finding Love!

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     The matchmaking team at Valenti has seen in its many years of experience how smart, successful and attractive people can limit themselves with negative thinking. They may believe that it is impossible to find the right partner or that they may not be worthy of truly intimate love. Believing things like “I’m too old to find love” or that “all the good ones are taken” can become excuses to stop looking for happiness. It can be understandable why someone who is good hearted and loving can believe in these negative thoughts. Opening yourself to a new relationship always…

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