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Making the choice to find love, doing it for yourself.

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  Choosing to seek out and find love is one of the most personal endeavors one can take. It is not something to be taken lightly. It is natural to ask for advice or support when searching for the right person to share lives with. Most of the time, friends and family are very supportive, as they want the best for their loved ones. However, that support can sometimes be misguided and limit the opportunities a person can have.   Loved ones sometimes try to set up dates with people who they think will be the right fit, but often…

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Why Conflict is Healthy for Relationships

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  In any relationship, there will be some conflict. While it is never a pleasant experience, it can be a positive opportunity in a healthy relationship. Two people in a healthy relationship will have strong feelings for each other, but one can forget that these strong feelings can also feel negative. Everyone’s most memorable arguments are always with loved ones. When you care about someone, the emotional charge in a disagreement can be highly charged.   However, how one resolves a dispute is critical as it can actually strengthen the bonds in a loving partnership. The team at Valenti came…

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A Step-by-Step Guide to Stop Negative Thoughts.

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  As we discussed in our last blog, negative thinking can deeply interfere with finding love and happiness. If left unchecked, these pessimistic thoughts can become automatic, coming up when you try to get ready to out yourself out there and meet someone new. But how can you actually put a stop to these thoughts? The team of matchmakers at Valenti International found this interesting article that clearly described how to do it! The way to stop negative thoughts like “I will never find someone” or ”I’m too old to find love again” is to take clear steps to identify…

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Stop Making Excuses and Start Finding Love!

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     The matchmaking team at Valenti has seen in its many years of experience how smart, successful and attractive people can limit themselves with negative thinking. They may believe that it is impossible to find the right partner or that they may not be worthy of truly intimate love. Believing things like “I’m too old to find love” or that “all the good ones are taken” can become excuses to stop looking for happiness. It can be understandable why someone who is good hearted and loving can believe in these negative thoughts. Opening yourself to a new relationship always…

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Saving Horses – Valenti Foundation and Rolls-Royce La Jolla – San Diego Events

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On a stunning February morning in Rancho Santa Fe, the Valenti Equestrian Club hosted a fundraiser for the Love of Horses to Benefit Saving Horses, Inc. (SHI), a nonprofit organization that rescues horses and provides equine-assisted therapy programs. The benefit serves to preserve the lives of precious horses that are in desperate need. Guests sampled a variety of light hors d’oeuvres, gourmet chocolates and mimosas. Read more here.

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Someone for Everyone: Love and Autism

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The matchmaking team at Valenti Matchmaking firmly believes that there is someone for everyone. Love and Autism are not mutually exclusive. A loving relationship can blossom for anyone when they meet the right person who deeply understands them. We came across this heartwarming video about two people who have Asperger’s who found love. People with Asperger’s syndrome have a high functioning form of Autism that is commonly characterized by average or above levels of intelligence accompanied with difficulties in socializing and communicating with others. There is a range in how severe these challenges can affect these individuals, but this does not…

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The Valenti team on Transition Radio, our Valentine’s Day podcast

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The team at Valenti International wants to share with you this great podcast! Irene Valenti and Dr. Edward Hernandez participated in a Valentine’s Day radio show, discussing the importance of cultivating love in our lives, the origins of Valentine’s, as well as our wonderful fundraising event with Rolls Royce of La Jolla!   We hope that you’ll enjoy this inspiring discussion!   https://soundcloud.com/transition-radio-tuesdays/special-valentines-day-edition-with-dr-edward-hernandez-and-irene-valenti-021417

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The Single Parent’s Guide to Dating

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When a single parent faces the prospect of dating, it can be quite daunting. Meeting someone new is tough to begin with, now add in children and it can become overwhelming. It is not just the couple coming together, but families. However, navigating the challenges can be successfully done with a little perspective and planning. The team of matchmakers has helped many parents find new romantic relationships. Timing is key. Knowing when you are ready to date is one stage. Disclosing this to your children and later introducing someone new to your children is also something that needs to be…

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Finding Hope in a Struggling Relationship

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When couples find their relationship beginning to struggle, they sometimes seek help to work things through. It is never an easy task, but asking for help can make all the difference. In this article the team at Valenti International selected, it describes the rays of hope that therapists have identified that suggest a good outcome. Dealing with differences and conflict in any relationship takes patience, trust, and energy. It also takes participation from both sides. Sometimes, even with supportive help, a relationship has gone to the point of no return. But how does one know when it is time to…

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